Effects of divorce on children under 5 years old

Preschool children often fear being abandoned after experiencing the loss of a parent. Reverting to baby behavior is common, such as asking for security blankets or old toys. Behavioral modifications often include aggression, anger, and disobedience. Many psychologists claim divorce is easier for children under the age of 5 because more mature children form stronger bonds over time and possess greater intellectual skills.

Anyone confronting separation and potential termination of a marriage should be aware of applicable family laws. The best source of current legal information is through local family law lawyers. The majority of family law lawyers practicing today offer free initial consultations. If you need assistance finding a lawyer, state bar associations generally provide free lawyer referral programs. Be aware that courts and court personnel are generally prohibited to offer potential parties what may be deemed as legal advice.

Free legal representation may also be available through legal foundations and volunteer lawyer programs. In general, legal foundations operate on a not-for-profit basis and services provided are ordinarily limited to low income families. Family law lawyers also frequently provide free legal services (pro bono) through state bar associations. Both types of resources place further restrictions on assistance provided, such as length of time separated, length of state residency, and county of residence. To locate free resources in your area call your state or local bar association.