How to get through a divorce

The simplest way to get through a divorce is to retain legal counsel for legal needs, and rely on professional counselors for emotional advice. Family, friends and clergy may share the best intentions, yet are seldom qualified to provide accurate legal answers. Professional counselors focus on the needs of a client and are bound by rules of strict confidentiality.

Anyone confronting separation and potential termination of a marriage should be aware of applicable family laws. The best source of current legal information is through local family law lawyers. The majority of family law lawyers practicing today offer free initial consultations. If you need assistance finding a lawyer, state bar associations generally provide free lawyer referral programs. Be aware that courts and court personnel are generally prohibited to offer potential parties what may be deemed as legal advice.

Free legal representation may also be available through legal foundations and volunteer lawyer programs. In general, legal foundations operate on a not-for-profit basis and services provided are ordinarily limited to low income families. Family law lawyers also frequently provide free legal services (pro bono) through state bar associations. Both types of resources place further restrictions on assistance provided, such as length of time separated, length of state residency, and county of residence. To locate free resources in your area call your state or local bar association.