Quick Divorce - Abuse Child Hotlines
Do not tolerate child abuse. Child hotlines are maintained by local, state and national organizations who
frequently offer assistance (short term). Shelters, moving expenses, and payment of medical bills may be
available. Contact any local divorce attorney for more information about hotlines serving your area.
A little planning goes a long way. The process of separation and divorce will change you legally,
financially, and emotionally. You must be decisive in the face of turmoil. Take care of your self and
children:
- Help your children - In a child's mind, the world they know is torn apart and they don't understand how a
parent could walk away. Small children tend to blame themselves, as if she isn't pretty enough, or he isn't
smart enough to be loved. Children need reassurance they won't be left completely alone.
- Be prepared to take responsibility - Deal with first things first. It's over. You will be preparing tax
returns, taking care of children's needs, balancing the budget, and washing clothes. When things go wrong, you
must take full responsibility as an adult.
- Get ready to file divorce - Before you file, know where you will live, how you will pay bills, and decide
how to tell your spouse and children about your decision. Find out in advance what the law requires and how
you will be affected.
- Emotional help - Even in the best circumstances, divorce causes loss and pain. If you need help coping, do
not hesitate to request professional help. You'll find you are not alone. The path to recovery begins with a
willingness to admit problems exist.
- Domestic Violence - Don't tolerate it. Children are especially vulnerable to abusive behavior and carry
emotional scars for life. Major studies prove children experience fewer adverse consequences from divorce than
living with both parents who are in an abusive relationship.
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